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snopes_feedsnopes_feedicanhascheezburger_feedWe're at that awkward middle of the week period. Not close enough to the weekend to relax, but far enough from Monday that you're starting to feel semi-human again. It's a weird, wobbly kind of day - which is exactly why we've summoned the derpiest cats the internet has to offer to keep your meowmentum going strong.
These feline friends have absolutely zero idea what they're doing… and we love them for it. From cross-eyed loafs attempting quantum mechanics, to dramatic mid-yawn masterpieces, to floofy friends who somehow managed to get their entire head stuck in a snack bag - every one of these kitties is bringing their best mid-week nonsense.
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Hi there, feline fam. There are a few situations where we would consider it "appropriate" for a pet cat to be outside.
The first would be if the cat had an epically enormous cat-shaped cat house that their owner built them. The second, and similarly, would be if your cat had a closed patio, which they could spend time outside without fear of escaping. The third would be if you have harness-trained your cats and take them on walks outside. That's it. Especially in months with harsh weather, like now where it's pawsitively sweltering outside.
All of this to say that we get where this neighbor is coming from in the post below. They felt their neighbor's cat choose them after being left to survive outside, and now they're wondering what they should do. They're moving, and they don't want to abandon the cat that clearly feels safe with them, but the cat still isn't "theirs" to begin with. What would you do?
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We would do anything for our cats. Anything and everything. We take our cats to the vet, even though we know they don't want to be taken. We give our cats medicine, even though they absolutely hate it. Vet visits might cost us thousands, but we do it anyway - for them, because they are our family, and we will treat them as such. So… we understand the thought process behind what the cat owner in this story did. We truly do. And we think that they are wrong anyway.
It was a hard decision to make - when this bridesmaid's cat got sick and had to be hospitalized - whether to stay nearby and cancel on her friend's wedding a day before it happened or go to the wedding. We understand that it was hard. We just think that when the cat had to be hospitalized for days without you being able to do anything to help it, and your fiancé was nearby to get to the cat if something did end up going wrong, you could have gone to the wedding. One day - there and back.
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With AnyTech365 IntelliGuard PRO, you have everything you need to maintain a clean, fast, and secure PC while safeguarding your privacy. snopes_feedA 23-year-old woman found herself tangled in a complicated situation after accepting a cat from her ex-boyfriend nearly a year ago. He told her the cat came from a friend who no longer wanted her, but the truth turned out to be less straightforward. The cat had actually been taken from a former girlfriend.
Almost a year later, the cat has become a full part of this woman's life. She's listed on the lease, microchipped, insured, and happily bonded with her other kitty. Suddenly, the alleged original owner reappeared and started causing hissteria, demanding the cat's return and harassing the woman with constant messages and calls.
Faced with the difficult decision of whether to keep the cat or return her, the woman chose to stand firm after investing so much time, money, and love. While the past remains complicated, the cat's place is clearly with the woman who has cared for her through thick and thin—a reminder that sometimes family is found in unexpected places.
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snopes_feedsnopes_feedsnopes_feedThere's nothing quite as mysterious, or mischievous, as a void cat on a stealth mission. One moment they're smack in the middle of the room, the next they've vanished into the shadows like a whiskered ninja. You'd think fur as dark as a black hole would be enough, but no. Void cats choose the darkest corners, the deepest closets, blending in like feline phantoms.
Looking for them? Good luck. You'll tiptoe, squint, and call their name like you're summoning a ghost. Suddenly, two glowing eyes appear from the void, silently judging you for disrupting their sacred slumber.
They're not hiding from you. They're hiding for the drama. It's part of their mystique. One second they're curled in your laundry like a sock monster, the next they've teleported behind the couch to plot adorable chaos.
Void cats don't get lost. They let themselves go unseen. Because if you're born with shadow-sleek fur and an aura of mischief, why wouldn't you cause a little panic and leave your hooman wondering where the fluff you went?
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Waking up early for work? An utter catastrophe. The alarm starts yowling at an hour no decent creature should be conscious, and suddenly you're being dragged out of your cozy nest like a kitten out of a sunbeam. Your body's screaming "nap time," but society demands emails, meetings, and pants. The audacity.
You shuffle to the kitchen like a confused housecat who forgot why it walked in. Coffee? Breakfast? A new identity? Who knows. Your brain's still in sleep mode and refuses to boot up without at least two cups of meowcha. And don't even get us started on the commute. Traffic is just one big, slow-moving hairball.
Meanwhile, cats? They're living the dream sleeping 16 hours a day, screaming for food at 6 a.m., and doing zoomies while you try to find clean socks. If cats had to work 9-5, there would be a full-scale feline revolution.
So if you're dragging yourself out of bed and into the chaos of corporate life, let these delightfully judgmental cat memes be your emotional support animals.
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